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Problem: Nakago, I have a serious problem and I need someone with more wisdom than I
to help me. But before I ask for help, I think it's only polite to give
something to a stranger first before you expect anything back, so I drew a
little sketch for you. Gomen if it doesn't look too much like you, I'm just
learning how to draw from the side, and I've never drawn you before and
didn't have any pictures to look at (I'm just in the very beginning of the
series) so I wasn't sure what you looked like. It's only a sketch though, I
didn't even stick a mouth on it really.
I'm not sure where to start, this has been a problem that's been building up
over time, I should have tried to find a solution sooner. I guess it started
about four years ago with one of my first boyfriends (I'm yaoi). He and I
got along great, and I don't really want to trash him or anything because
I'm friends with him now, but back when we dated we started having some
normal problems, and then I found out he was already married. Of course I
couldn't accept that and I left him, but I got into huge trouble and I
didn't even get to date again for a few years.
That hurt a lot because it was one of my first experiences and it was awful.
Now all my relationships are having similar turns though. My past few
relationships have consisted of a very jealous man, then an overly sensitive
man who was hurt by nearly anything that happened, then my friend set me up
with a friend of his who I can probably describe as underly sensitive and
never really cared about anything, and right now I think the relationship I
have with my boyfriend is going downhill again. Basically, I think he's
going to dump me, and if he does the whole thing went kind of like this: We
were happy, we had troubles, I found out he was cheating on me, I apologized
and then he dumped me. I'm not quite sure how that happened, really...
Though I can't be positive I think my problem might be caused because I'm a
pacifist and a little priestly like. I'm very attracted to 'bad boys', I
like to be dominated and be playful sometimes, but I think that because I'm
a pacifist they don't want to do anything to me. Almost like when a cop is
nearby and everyone starts following all the rules because they don't want a
ticket or to get arrested. I'm so tired of being treated like a porcelain
doll! They don't do anything they like to with me and then get bored! But I
don't know what I can do to attract a better man who will be kind and at
least a little naughty. Onegai,tasukete! »»A desperate little elf
Advice: Arigatou for the sketch. Now, to your problem. Actually, it is your fault. You alienate people because of your attitude. Losen up a little and enjoy. From what you tell me, you act like their mother. It's not bad to be a pacifist but sometimes, the only way to solve things is thru a fight. And what is this being dominated thing? Your other boyfriends probably thought you were too easy and lost interest in you. Just be confident in yourself and don't be too submissive. You'll find the right guy. Just wait.
Problem: Dear Nakago,
I have a friend at school that is always bragging about how good Tamahome is and all that. And the one thing I can't stand is when she talks about how he killed you in the series. Though she gets angry when I bring up the fact that you got to beat the living shit out of him, and also control him.
I'm not sure what I should do with her. Can you give me some advice? »»chibiNakagoluver
Advice: Tamahome? The "man" who talks like a girl, cries like a girl and fights like a girl (not to be sexist in any way)?!? Well, if you ask me, this friend of yours is just convincing herself that Tamahome is good. That's why she gets mad when you tell her how I whopped his backside. Because deep inside her, she knows he's a weakling and she's too stubborn to admit that. A person who likes a loser like Tamahome is a loser too. Why would you want to be friends with a loser anyway?
Problem: Hello handsome Seiryu (did I get the spelling right? just correct me if I'm wrong) seishi. My questions aren't really my personal problems. These are just mere queries that I've been curious about. I've been thinking of putting these questions in the forum, but I'd rather hear it straight from you. I hope this won't cause you any trouble or whatsoever:
> You have exactly blue eyes and blonde hair, just like Sailor Moon and/or Deedee. How are you related to them?
> It's been stated that you were a foreigner in the country of Kutou. So where do you "originally" come from anyway? You don't seem to be a true native of China with that blonde hair and those blue eyes of yours. What is your true nationality by blood? Are you from Europe or somewhere else?
>Of course it's no surprise that a lot of fangirls ended up drooling not just because of your great looks, but also because of your ooh so sexy body. Do you work-out? If you do, how many times a week? And how many hours a day?
>Your seishi sign always changes according to different sources. I read in a fanfic that the sign of your forehead is "shin", and then another says that it is "kokoro". While in English translation, one of your official websites say that it is read as "heart", while another states that it is read as "angel". I'm confused. What is the real score?
>Was it really necessary to kiss Tamahome back then before Yui was about to summon Seiryu? That was disgusting!
>And that thing you did to Miaka when you kissed her, well, was even worse!
Arigatou gozaimasu for taking your time in reading this one, Nakago-sama. »»Sakoto
Advice: Or should I say answers?
> I am not related to Sailor Moon or Deedee. Just because we have blonde hair blue eyes doesn't mean that we're related. Asking that question is like saying everyone with blonde hair and blue eyes are related.
> It's not something I want to talk about. Read the Profile section.
> I am training on a regular basis.
> Have you heard of synonyms? Everyone has different interpretations, little girl. For example, "beautiful" can also be called "pretty" or "gorgeous". There are a lot of meanings in words. You should not be limited to only one.
> No comment.
> No comment.
Problem: Dear Nakago,
I need help with a problem that's been bugging me as of late. My boyfriend and I just broke up, and I found out some nasty stuff afterwards from a very trustworthy friend. There was another reason for why my boyfriend and I broke up, and it wasn't what he told me originally.
My question is this: Do I stop talking to the guy, or do I stay friends with him(like he said) and forget about the nasty things he said about me? »»Curious Player
Advice: Of course you can be "friends" with him. Be his best friend - the person who he confides in and tell all his juicy secrets. After you get all the information out of him, you can tell it to everyone you know. That's what friends are for, right?
Problem: Nakago, I think this question might sound like the type that I shouldn't have confided to you, but I felt like I can trust you and rely on you.
You see, I really like drawing a lot. Anime style is particularly my favorite. In high school, I've always wanted to take up the course Fine Arts because one, I wish to inhance my drawing skills further. And two, I've always dreamed of becoming an anime cartoonist or a manga artist. But because my father disagreed about this, I'm taking up Computer Science instead. Would I still have the chances of becoming a manga artist or anime cartoonist someday with the type of course I took up? What should I do? O an »»Confused College Nakago Fangirl
Advice: Sure you can. I have seen different cartoonists who did not have a degree in Fine Arts. All you need is skill and imagination. Plus, with your added knowledge in computers, you can make animation softwares and all other goodies you can use for making your masterpiece. Besides you can sit-in on some art classes as long as you ask permission from the professor and don't do it everyday. Or the more expensive way, you can enroll in some art classes in your university.
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